Smell the Roses - Part II

In the last post I mentioned "stopping to smell the roses." For Meetings and Milestones promotion this month,  I asked several people to comment on the topic "In 2014, I'm excited about _____ or I'm looking forward to _____."  In the attached video Morris, my husband, talks about his serious health scare in January of 2010. He got up one night about 1:30 am to go to the bathroom and fell over on the bed with severe chest pains.  I called 911 and within 5 - 7 minutes, two ambulances arrived with five paramedics. They checked him over and asked to which hospital he wanted to be transported.  They gave me three choices and I chose Memorial Hermann Medical Center.  It turned out to be a wise choice. In the emergency room they did a scan and discovered he probably had an aortic dissection (aneurysm). They assembled the team and by 7 am, he was being wheeled into surgery.  He was probably about as close to death as one can be and still be alive as he had both an ascending and descending dissection.  In fact, John Ritter died of an aortic dissection 10 years ago last September.  Morris is forever grateful as am I for the incredible talents of Dr. Anthony Estrera, Dr. Hazim Safi and the surgical team at Memorial Hermann Heart and Vascular Institute.  He was in the hospital for two weeks and went through several weeks of recuperation but thankfully, he eventually returned to his old curmudgeonly self (just kidding, dear).  In the video, he talks about looking forward to January 28th every year and also to our 6th anniversary (me, too).

Women's Social Group

We often get so wound up in our lives that we don't stop to have fun and just "smell the roses."  So.....I thought it would be nice to get together with a group of women every three months or so to participate in a social activity and enjoy each other's company.  I invited a few friends and one of my friends had the idea to ask other ladies that live in Houston with whom we attended high school (W.B. Ray High in Corpus Christi, TX). We had our first "meeting" this past Saturday.  It was great! Of course, we talked about high school but we have other things in common now like children, grandchildren, menopause, aches and pains, etc.  We were able to connect with each other on a different level which was nice.

For the next meeting we may attend a play at the Main Street Theater-Chelsea Market in Houston called "Girls Only: The Secret Comedy of Women."  I saw this play last year with my friends Cindy and Pam and it's a hoot, let me tell you!  It's scheduled for an extended run at least through February and March as of now.  It's most fun to attend with a group of women so you can share the laughs.  I don't recall seeing any men at the show but there could have been a few brave souls.  If you get a chance, I would highly recommend seeing this play!

Cat's Meow: Part II

Last week I introduced you to Ernie, our older cat.  This week I'd like you to meet Charlie. Charlie joined our family on July 7, 2007.  We picked him out at a pet store where one of the foster groups takes cats and dogs for people to adopt. When we first saw Charlie, he was in a cage with his brother and sister. His sister, a shy kitty, stayed in the corner. His brother jumped around in the cage like a monkey.  Charlie was kind of in-between so we picked him.  His original name was Cole but we didn't particularly care for that name so we renamed him Charlie after Charlie Gibson on Good Morning America.

Charlie knows no fear.  He's very inquisitive and loves people.  When he came home with us, he was just a little squirt with gigantic ears! The advice is to separate the animals so they can sniff each other out from a safe distance.  We put Charlie in the guest room but there is a space under the door so Charlie and Ernie were poking their paws under the door trying to reach each other almost from the beginning.  At the end of the first week they were best buds.  Now that they've lived together for 6 1/2 years, they're very close. They usually sleep next to each other on our bed.

As I mentioned, Charlie has no fear and will try just about anything at least once.  I was watching TV one day and happened to look in the kitchen.  Charlie was on top of the cabinet! I mean on top of the cabinet by the ceiling!  It scared me to death.  I was afraid he couldn't get down so I climbed on the counter, reached up and lifted him down.  Not long after that, I saw him on top of the cabinet again.  This time I said to myself, "He got himself up there; he can get himself down."  And he did.

At night when we're reading and about to go to sleep, Charlie will jump off the bed, run down both flights of stairs and start his wailing sounds.  I don't know what that's all about but it cracks us up every time!  Our Charlie and Ernie have greatly enriched our lives and we are thankful we found them.

But how do cats connect to event planning you ask?  If you're planning a birthday party for the person who has everything, the host might suggest that people bring dog or cat food instead and donate it to Interfaith Ministries (in Houston) or a similar organization.  Interfaith Ministries has a program called aniMeals on Wheels which is part of the Meals on Wheels program that delivers meals to qualifying home-bound seniors. AniMeals on Wheels supplies pet food to older adults so they can continue to feed their "best friends" without incurring additional financial hardship.   

Cat's Meow

Today I'm introducing you to one of our cats.  Ernie is about 8 1/2 years old.  I say "about" because when we got him at the pet store, the foster group told us he was 11 months old.  He only weighed 4 lbs. which I found curious.  He was healthy so I suspected he was only about 6 months old, if that.  Anyway, Ernie is a sweetheart.  My husband Morris told me Ernie is unusual for a cat because he LOVES to be petted.  At night when we're watching TV, he has to sit on my lap.  I read somewhere that a cat is complimenting you when he sits on you.  It's like he's saying, "I could be doing other things but because I like you, I'm going to sit on you"! Also, Ernie sleeps on our bed.  Do we really have a choice?  Not that we mind but Ernie and his "brother cat:" Charlie sleep on my side of the bed and sometimes they wedge me in so I have to draw my knees up and flip myself out of the bed so as not to disturb them.

Ernie has a healthy appetite; there's no question there.  We'll say he's "plump."  Merriam-Webster defines "plump" as "having a full rounded usually pleasing form."  That's Ernie!  We used to feed him and his brother twice a day but decided maybe he could lose some weight if we fed him four times a day (but the same total amount).  So they get 1/8 cup of cat food at 7:45 am, 1 pm, 6 pm and 11 pm.  I'll tell you I don't know how Ernie does it but he can tell time!  If one of us is not awake and feeding them at 7:45 am, he'll start with the headbutts.  He'll give us a headbutt in the side, the head, whichever body part is closest.  My office is on the 1st floor and my husband's is on the 3rd floor.  Ernie will come downstairs to me at 1 pm and start making racket.  I'll say, "Ernie, how'd you know what time it is"?  My husband says if Ernie is upstairs in the afternoon, though, he'll sit and look at his food bowl starting about 2:30.  When we went on vacation in October, we thought about buying one of those automatic feeders that plays a recording of your voice when it's mealtime.  When I was researching them, I read about a couple that recorded the sound of pouring food in the bowl! Well, we passed on it that time because our cats have a wonderful English nanny.  If you're looking for a dependable and totally trustworthy pet sitter, let me know!

So how does this all tie in to event planning, you ask?  Just wanted to let you know a little bit more about myself so you'll know what kind of personality I have when you call me to plan your party.  I love planning fun events and look forward to collaborating with you on your milestone celebrations!

Happy New Year!!